“In April of 1999, Jeremy
went to the beach with some
friends from church, just hanging out. As
usually happens with most people,
he mentioned something that was worrying him—he
couldn't make his rent
that month. After communion the next evening,
the church had an open microphone
for anyone who wanted to talk. Most of the
people who spoke talked about
what God was doing in their lives, but not
Heather. Jeremy couldn't believe
what she did—especially since he'd just met her
the day before at the beach.
‘Jeremy can't make his rent this month,’ Heather
said, ‘and I think we
all should give him whatever we can spare to
help out.’ Jeremy broke down
and began weeping—not out of embarrassment, but
out of gratitude. ‘I've
never had anybody do anything like that for me
before,’ Jeremy said. After
the service, friends and strangers came by and
pressed money into his hand.
Not only was he able to make that month's rent,
they gave him enough to
pay the next month's and a DMV bill that was
due.
That night, he experienced
community. Community isn't
a group of people hanging out, and it isn't a
program—it is a process of
members of the body of Christ rubbing souls with
one another, entering
into each other's pain and celebrating one
another's victories.”
—Future Church: Ministry in a
Post-Seeker Age, p.
229-230 Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
In Future Church, Jim
Wilson writes about “Janice”
a member of Agape Community Church in Rio
Rancho, New Mexico. He describes
her as a person with “a lifetime of tragedy
etched on her 50-year-old complexion.
She's had four husbands and five children.
Today, she only knows where
one of the children is and doesn't care to know
where any of her husbands
are—she was a battered wife. The beatings took
their toll; to this day
Janice suffers lingering disabilities from the
abuse that were compounded
by an auto accident a few years later. She's a
squirrely sort of person
that has a hard time finding any social
equilibrium. Because of her health,
Janice can't hold down a job, but she isn't
lazy—quite the opposite. She
is very resourceful, supporting herself by
collecting junk, cleaning it
up and selling it at garage sales. One crisis
after another follows in
her wake, she always seems to be a few steps
away from calamity and in
constant need of grace—an extra portion of
grace.
Janice's car was in worse
shape than she was—it
was always breaking down. Men in the church
tried to fix it and stop it
from overheating; they even took it to a
mechanic when they couldn't fix
it, but to no avail. It was shot. Jim and his
wife Jolene took Janice's
need seriously and begin looking through the
Penny Saver to see if they
could find a car that the church might be able
to buy for Janice. But before
they did, a member of the church handed Sandell
the keys to his old car
and said, ‘Pastor, we bought a new car this week
and thought we'd give
our old one to the church just in case you or
someone else might need it.’
Jim immediately thought of Janice. Now, with the
gift, she had reliable
transportation, but her problems weren't
over.
Janice is missing that
something that most people
have in their makeup that lets them know when
they are acting inappropriately.
If she's down at 3:00 in the morning, and she
needs to talk, she doesn't
think twice about picking up the phone and
dialing a phone number. At times,
Jim Sandell, the pastor reaches his wits end
with people like Janice, and
when he does, he prays: ‘Lord, I know You've
brought these people here
for us to minister to. I pray for the strength
to do what I can do to make
a difference. And give me the extra grace I need
to extend extra grace
to them.’ Part of extending extra grace to
people like Janice is to not
view them as a ‘ministry project’ but to see
them as someone Christ has
drawn to their church—a part of the
family.”
—Future Church,
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
Matthew
25:45 NIV “He
will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you
did not do for one of the
least of these, you did not do for me.'”
In his book, Being The
Body, Charles Colson writes,
“Just as we cannot do justice to September 11,
we could not begin to detail
all the ways that churches across our nation
lived their faith in its wake.
In the darkest hour, so many of the people of
God stood as His church,
doing what the church does best: being the
community that brings hope and
comfort to brokenness and pain.”
—The Body, p. 4
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
Romans
12:15 NASB “Rejoice
with those who rejoice, and weep with those who
weep.”
The True Bethel Baptist
Church in Buffalo, New York
has found a new way to impact their community.
The church on the city’s
east side is about to become the first church in
Buffalo, and perhaps the
nation to operate a Subway franchise. Pastor
Darius Pridgen will attend
a two-week training program in August for new
franchise owners, and then
return to teach his congregation the basics of
sandwich-making and restaurant
finances.
The franchise will open in
November on the church
grounds. Pridgen says True Bethels’ store will
be no different from the
16 other franchises in the area, but its aim
will he higher than turning
a profit. The church plans to bring healthier
eating alternatives and economic
development to the east side of Buffalo. The
franchise will provide job
training for younger members of the congregation
and surrounding neighborhoods.
Graduates of the church’s employment skills
classes will work for several
months at the Subway. The church will then help
them find permanent jobs
outside the church
Pridgen says the restaurant
will also move the church
toward financial stability. He says, “Usually
(Subways) are located in
suburbs and the north side of town. We thought
it would be a good idea
to bring it to the inner city.”
Kevin Kane, public
relations manger for Subway says
he did not know for sure if True Bethel was the
only church operating a
franchise but added, “Its certainly a
rarity.”
—www.buffalonews.com,
Angel Food? True Bethel to open its own Subway,
by Brian Baskin, Illustration
by Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell.
James
2:14-16. NLT
“Dear brothers and sisters, what’s the use if
saying you have faith if
you don’t prove it by your actions? That kind of
faith can’t save anyone.
Suppose you see a brother or sister who needs
food and clothing and you
say, “Well good-bye and God bless you; stay warm
and eat well”—but then
you don’t give that person any food or clothing,
What good does that do?”
COMMUNITY
The cover story for the
August 22-28, 2001 USA TODAY
BASEBALL WEEKLY featured the Oakland A's, who
are on an amazing winning
streak. With a 28-9, post All-Star game record,
they are the hottest team
in baseball.
Throughout the article, the
players credited the
comradery of the team as a key component to
their success. Pitcher Barry
Zito said, "We get along great. It's not an
image we try to put out there;
it's just the way we are. We hang out together."
Zito continued. "Basically,
you can pick five names out of a hat, and those
guys would go out and eat
and have a good time.
"Some people might not
appreciate how special this
clubhouse is and how much that means to wins and
losses on the field, but
it really is a beautiful thing."
—2001 USA TODAY BASEBALL
WEEKLY, August 22-28, p.
9 Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
Personally, I think the low
ERA of the pitching
staff might have more to do with the "W's" they
are posting than whether
the guys like to gang out together. But the
comment does show one important
thing: people long for community. Whether it is
at a bar "where everybody
knows your name," a clubhouse where players get
along, or a church where
life is shared with others, community is
important.
1
Peter 1:22 NIV "Now
that you have purified yourselves by obeying the
truth so that you have
sincere love for your brothers, love one another
deeply, from the heart."
COMMUNITY
In his book, "With One
Voice", Reggie Kidd writes,
"Each of us finds ourselves in a community that
has come from somewhere
and that does things certain ways for certain
reasons. We sing a particular
song this way instead of that way. Our liturgy
is shaped this way and not
that. As each group develops its nuances, it
becomes a family and develops
its own folk culture. That's necessary, and it's
good. But we say something
profound about the gospel itself when we stay a
family and refuse to allow
ourselves to become insular, a closed-in
group."
—"With One Voice", p. 156.
Illustration by Jim L.
Wilson
John
15:12 (NASB77)
"This is My commandment, that you love one
another, just as I have loved
you."
COMMUNITY/TRIALS
A piece of paper is
stronger than most people think.
If you take a sheet of paper and crumple it into
as small a ball as you
can, even if you are Mr. Universe, the ball is
still 75 percent air. University
of Chicago physicist Sidney Nagel wondered how
air could hold up something
as thin as a sheet of paper. Nagel and his
colleagues investigated their
question by crumpling Mylar sheets and placing
them under a heavy piston.
They found that though most of the compression
took place in the first
few seconds, the piston kept crushing the sheets
by small amounts up to
three weeks later.
The physicists discovered
that squeezing a tightly
crushed wad down to half its volume would take
64 times as much force as
a normal person can exert. Nagel says, “Even a
weight lifter isn’t 64 times
stronger than the average person.” According to
Nagel, paper balls resist
compression because crumples in the paper
consist of many small peaks joined
by a network of ridges. To crush the ball
further, each ridge has to buckle
in two. Compressing the ball creates more
ridges, which requires even more
energy to break.
—Discover Magazine, The
Incredible Power of Crumpled
Paper, pg. 13, August 2002, Illustration
by Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
In community, we are better
able to withstand trials.
God’s power is displayed as we form a network of
ridges and small peaks
that keep the community of believers from being
crushed.
2
Cor. 4:7-10 NIV “But
we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that
the surpassing greatness
of the power may be of God and not from
ourselves; we are afflicted in
every way, but not crushed: perplexed, but not
despairing; persecuted,
but not forsaken; struck down, but not
destroyed; always carrying about
in the body the dying of Jesus, that the life of
Jesus also may be manifest
in our body.”
COMMUNITY
In Outliers: The Story of Success, Malcolm
Gladwell writes, “Successful
people don't do it alone. Where they come from
matters. They're products
of particular places and environments.”
-- Outliers: The Story of Success, 119
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (HCSB) “Two are better than
one because they have
a good reward for their efforts. For if either
falls, his companion can
lift him up; but pity the one who falls without
another to lift him up.
Also, if two lie down together, they can keep
warm; but how can one person
alone keep warm? And if somebody overpowers one
person, two can resist
him. A cord of three strands is not easily
broken.”
COMMUNITY
Eric Schmidt, CEO and chairman of Google, in a
commencement address
at the University of Pennsylvania said, "Turn
off your computer. You're
actually going to have to turn off your phone
and discover all that is
human around us," He continued, "Nothing beats
holding the hand of your
grandchild as he walks his first steps."
In a sense, technology brings the world to our
fingertips. Twitter
allows us to follow every action of a celebrity,
cell phones allow us to
talk or text friends and family around the word,
but technology can also
push those physically closest to us further
away. How many times
have you said, “excuse me” in the middle of a
conversation to answer your
phone or read a text? Schmidt may have a
point. Turn the lousy
things off and hang out with a friend.
There is a reason that these
devises come with an “off switch.” Use them!
--http://www.salisburypost.com/Lifestyle/052409-Google-Penn
illustration
by Jim L. Wilson
Proverbs 17:17 (HCSB) “A friend loves at all
times, and a brother is
born for a difficult time.”
COMMUNITY
In the motion
picture, Because of Winn Dixie,
Opal is a young woman who has just moved to a
new small town in Florida
with her father, the new preacher at the local
church. Opal is lonely and
desperate to make friends until she finds a dog
in the grocery store, which
she names Winn Dixie. Winn Dixie helps Opal make
new friends. As Opal and
her dog discover life in this new city, they
find that most people are
just as lonely as she is, although they have
lots of friends. Opal discovers
that life is made up of both joy and sorrow.
These experiences in life
are what connect people and bind them together.
The greatest sorrow in
Opal’s life is that her mother
left the family years before. She and her father
are separated by the pain
they feel over her departure. Neither knows how
to deal with the hurt,
and it threatens to drive them apart until one
stormy night when Winn Dixie
is lost during a thunderstorm.
OPTION 1 Play scene from
Because of Winn Dixie,
Chapter 22, The Search 1:33:45 to 1:37:27 and
make application
OPTION II: Describe scene
and make application.
Opal and her father, the
preacher already have deep
hurts left from when their wife and mother left.
Opal has memorized a list
of ten things about her mother so she will never
forget. Facing with the
possibility of losing Winn Dixie, Opal creates
another list about the dog
so she will have a part of him to hold on to. As
Opal and her father search
in vain for the dog, old hurts surface again.
As they search the empty
streets, draining rain
water drips onto the wet street from porches and
storefronts. The preacher
sighs and says, “It’s getting late. You’re
getting tired and we need to
head back.” His voice has a tone of resignation
and surrender in it. Opal
is still optimistic and responds, “But Daddy,
he’s still out there! We
can’t leave him!” Her father sighs and says,
“There’s only so much searching
we can do.” They walk a few more steps in
silence until suddenly Opal stops
short. Her father turns back, wondering what the
problem is.
As he turns around, Opal
looks up accusingly. “You
are going to give up!. You give up on
everything.” Her father objects,
“That’s not true!” Opal stops him and continues
to accuse. “It is true.
All you do is give up. You just pull your head
back inside your stupid
turtle shell and give up. You won’t talk. You
won’t go to parties.” She
pauses for a minute, and continues “I bet you
didn’t even go out looking
for my mom when she left!” The Preacher sighs as
he listens, to the hurt
hidden in his daughter’s heart.
In her next breath, Opal
continues. “I bet you just
let her run off too.” The Preacher gets down on
his knees to embrace Opal,
and opens his heart for the first time. “I
couldn’t stop her, I tried Opal.”
Opal tries to turn away, but her father’s
insistence pulls her back.
” I tried. You don’t think
I wanted her to stay
too? She was everything to me.”
In her pain, Opal shouts
back, “You didn’t try.
She wasn’t everything to you.” Though her father
tries to object, he knows
Opal has a point. Finally, he manages to say
sincerely. “Yes, she was.
Opal. She was everything. Everything. I failed
her. All right, I failed
her!” Though Opal is still not convinced, the
preacher continues. “I tried
with everything I had.” Then with great pain, he
adds, “It’s my fault.
Opal, it’s all my fault. I’m sorry”
After a long awkward
silence, the preacher adds,
“Don’t believe losing Winn Dixie isn’t going to
upset me as much as it
is you. I love that dog. I love him too.” In the
honesty of the moment,
the barrier between father and daughter falls
away and they embrace, affirming
their love for each other. They continue to look
up and down the empty
streets a few more minutes. As they step back
into the street, Opal asks,
“Daddy, do you think Mom will ever come back?”
Feeling the new freedom
in their relationship and in his heart, the
preacher replies, “No. I don’t
think so Opal. I’ve hoped and prayed and dreamed
about her coming back.
I don’t think it’s going to happen.” Listening,
Opal shares a lesson she
learned from her new friend Gloria. “Gloria told
me that you can’t hold
on to anybody. You can only love what you got
while you got it.” The preacher
considers the thoughts and smiles. “Gloria Dump
is a wise person” Thinking
more about Gloria’s lesson, Opal begins again.
“I’m not ready to let Winn
Dixie go.” Her father takes Opal by the hand and
says softly. “You remember
I told you, your mother took everything with her
when she left?” Opal nods
as her father continues, “Well there’s one very
important thing she left
behind.” Opal looks puzzled and asks, “What?”
Her father smiles and replies,
“You! Thank God, your momma left me you.”
-- Because of Winn Dixie,
Chapter 22 The Search,
1:33:45 to 1:37:27, Copyright 2004, Twentieth
Century Fox Film Corporation
and Walden Media LLC.
APPLICATION: God never
intended us to hold our hurts
inside and pretend they aren’t there. He gives
us friends to share the
sweetness and sadness life brings. Relationships
reach their full potential
when we share each other’s burdens.
Galatians 6:2 (CEV) You
obey the law of Christ when
you offer each other a helping hand.
COMMUNITY
In Forgotten God: Reversing
our Tragic Neglect of
the Holy Spirit, Francis Chan writes, “The
church is intended to be a beautiful
place of community. A place where wealth is
shared and when one suffers,
everyone suffers. A place where when one
rejoices, everyone rejoices. A
place where everyone experiences real love and
acceptance in the midst
of great honesty about our brokenness. Yet most
of the time this is not
even close to how we would describe our
churches.
Without the Spirit of God
in our midst, working
in us, guiding us and living and loving through
us, we will never be the
kind of people who make up this kind of
community.”
-- Forgotten God: Reversing
our Tragic Neglect of
the Holy Spirit P. 152. Illustration by Jim L.
Wilson
Romans 1:12 (NIV) “that is,
that you and I may be
mutually encouraged by each other's faith”
COMMUNITY
In his book, The Prodigal God, Timothy Keller
writes, “Christians commonly
say they want a relationship with Jesus that
they want to ‘get to know
Jesus better.’ You will never be able to do that
by yourself. You must
be deeply involved in the church, in Christian
community, with strong relationships
of love and accountability. Only if you are part
of a community of believers
seeking to resemble, serve, and love Jesus will
you ever get to know him
and grow into his likeness.”
-- The Prodigal God, P. 127 Illustration by Jim
L. Wilson
Hebrews 10:25 (HCSB) “not staying away
from our meetings, as some
habitually do, but encouraging each other, and
all the more as you see
the day drawing near.”
COMMUNITY
In Creating Community: Five Keys to Building a
Small Group Culture,
Stanley and Willits identified four negative
results of living a life in
isolation: a loss of perspective, a fear of
intimacy, increasing selfishness,
and poor health.
Creating Community: Five Keys to Building a
Small Group Culture, 31-32.
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Ralph
Neighbour III
John 17:11 (GW) “I won't be in the world much
longer, but they are in
the world, and I'm coming back to you. Holy
Father, keep them safe by the
power of your name, the name that you gave me,
so that their unity may
be like ours.”
COMMUNITY
In Changes that Heal, Henry Cloud writes, “A
person’s ability to love
and connect with others lays the foundation for
both psychological and
physiological health. The research illustrates
that when we are in loving
relationship, we are growing. When we are
isolated, we are slowly dying.”
Changes that Heal 54. Illustration by Jim L.
Wilson and Ralph Neighbour
III
Acts 1:14 (GW) “The apostles had a single
purpose as they devoted themselves
to prayer. They were joined by some women,
including Mary (the mother of
Jesus), and they were joined by his
brothers.”
COMMUNITY
A new study by Chaeyoon Lim, an assistant
professor of sociology at
the University of Wisconsin-Madison, indicates
that one of the keys to
happiness is church attendance, more
particularly, having a circle of friends
at that church. “Attending religious services
regularly and having close
friends in the congregation are key to having a
happier, more satisfying
life.”
--USA Today, December 7, 2010, p. 7D
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
and Rodger Russell
In addition to happiness, “33% of people who
attend religious services
every week and have three to five close friends
in their congregation report
being ‘extremely satisfied’ with their
lives.”
God created us to live in relationship with
others.
1 Thessalonians 4:18 (NIV) Therefore encourage
each other with these
words.
COMMUNITY
Jill Costello was finishing her junior year at
the University of California.
Just before heading home for summer vacation,
she discovered she was in
the last stages of lung cancer. Her doctors gave
her 9 months to live.
Her support network was the Cal crew team where
she was a coxswain. They
had just returned from the NCAA National
Championship where they placed
second., where Jill directed the third
boat.
Jill’s senior year reads like a combination
medical chart/athletic plan.
Her teammates rallied around her. At one meet,
they even exchanged the
“Cal” logo on their uniforms to one that said
“Jill.” At nationals, one
year after her diagnosis, the Cal rowers voted
Jill as the coxswain for
the number one boat. The coach agreed and she
led her team to a third place
finish. By the end of the month, her teammates
were attending her funeral.
--“The Courage of Jill Costello,” Sports
Illustrated, Nov. 29,
2010 pp. 65-72. Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
and Rodger Russell
This is an example of what a church is to be; a
tight knit group of
individuals, who put aside personal pain and
ambition to help the group
reach its goal. In the church, the goal is to be
the body of Christ, acting
in the world, and reaching the world with the
gospel.
1 Corinthians 12:26 (NIV) If one part suffers,
every part suffers with
it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices
with it.
COMMUNITY
Aaron was happy being alone. His trips into the
western wilderness areas
were usually by himself. Then came the day when
an 800-pound boulder fell
and trapped his right arm. Alone, with no hope
of rescue, no one even knew
where he was, he endured 127 hours of
entrapment. He finally broke the
bone, cut his right arm off,, and walked out for
help. He wrote about the
adventure, or misadventure, in his book, Between
a Rock and a Hard Place.
Now it is a major motion picture, 127 Hours.
When asked how the experience changed him,
Aaron Ralston says, “I figured
out that I not only want to connect with people,
but that I need them.”
--Sports Illustrated, November 15, 2010
p. 21 Illustration by
Jim L. Wilson and Rodger Russell
Our experiences are enhanced as well as easier
when we share them with
others.
If Ralston would have been hiking with a friend,
either the two of
them would have moved the offending boulder, or
the friend could have hiked
for help.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (NIV) (9) Two are better
than one, because they
have a good return for their work: (10) If one
falls down, his friend can
help him up. But pity the man who falls and has
no one to help him up!
(11) Also, if two lie down together, they will
keep warm. But how can one
keep warm alone? (12) Though one may be
overpowered, two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly
broken.
COMMUNITY
54 year-old Howard Snitzer of Goodhue, Minn.
collapsed on a freezing
sidewalk. Two car mechanics and a high school
teacher ran over to help.
“For the next 96 minutes, a tag team of more
than 25 other people, including
volunteer firefighters, took turns performing
CPR on Snitzer, until a rescue
helicopter could take him to a hospital.” Dr.
Bruce Wilkoff reported the
expectation he would make a full recovery. “It’s
remarkable. It’s a great
example of people doing the right thing and
having it work out.”
--The Week, March 18, 2011 p. 6 Illustration by
Jim L. Wilson and Rodger
Russell
Jesus left His church here to do spiritual CPR
on a world that is collapsing
under the weight of sin. We should be
participating together in the task.
Acts 2:42 (CEV) They spent their time learning
from the apostles, and
they were like family to each other. They also
broke bread and prayed together.
COMMUNITY
Japan’s cataclysmic earthquake has brought its
economy to its knees
as it struggles to recover from a national
tragedy. Up until now, the effects
of the disaster seemed localized and most other
nations remained largely
unaffected. However, it is becoming more evident
that Japan’s woes may
deeply affect nations all over the world.
Investing in Chinese business
has been a boon for many investment firms but
this now stands in danger
when faced with a smaller that anticipated
demand for Chinese exports.
Japan is a vital cog in the wheel of business
and the world may not have
anticipated how much Japan’s troubles may damage
the world economy.
The fact that all of humanity is connected is
an obvious fact when one
pays attention to the events of the world. The
greatest tragedy and the
greatest miracle of human history also affected
every human being who ever
lived.
--iStockanalyst-http://www.istockanalyst.com/article/viewarticlepaged/articleid/5085686/pageid/1
Illustration
by Jim L. Wilson and Miguel Martinez
Romans 5:17-18 (NASB77) (17) For if by the
transgression of the one,
death reigned through the one, much more those
who receive the abundance
of grace and of the gift of righteousness will
reign in life through the
One, Jesus Christ. (18) So then as through one
transgression there resulted
condemnation to all men, even so through one act
of righteousness there
resulted justification of life to all men.
COMMUNITY
In The Divine Commodity: Discovering a Faith
Beyond Consumer Christianity,
Skye Jethani writes, “But the idea of community
always appears more beautiful
than the reality. Real people are difficult, and
real arguments erupt.
This is the dilemma of community — we desire it,
we need it, but we seem
ill equipped to create it.”
- The Divine Commodity, p. 132 Illustration by
Jim L. Wilson
1 Corinthians 1:10 (HCSB) Now I urge you,
brothers, in the name of our
Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree in what
you say, that there be
no divisions among you, and that you be united
with the same understanding
and the same conviction.
COMMUNITY
In his book, We Are All Weird, Seth Godin
writes, “If you persist in
trying to be all things to all people, you will
fail. The only alternative,
then, is to be something important to a few
people.”
-- We Are All Weird (p. 53). Illustration by
Jim L. Wilson
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (CEV) “You are better off
to have a friend than
to be all alone, because then you will get more
enjoyment out of what you
earn. (10) If you fall, your friend can help you
up. But if you fall without
having a friend nearby, you are really in
trouble.”
COMMUNITY
In Flickering Pixels, Shane Hipps writes,
“Digital social networking
inoculates people against the desire to be
physically present with others
in real social networks—networks like a church
or a meal at someone’s home.
Being together becomes nice but
nonessential.”
--Flickering Pixels, 115
Acts 2:46 (CEV) “Day after day they met
together in the temple. They
broke bread together in different homes and
shared their food happily and
freely,”
COMMUNITY
In Flickering Pixels, Shane Hipps writes, “I
was sitting with a different
friend at lunch one day. His cell phone rang. I
stopped talking and said,
“You can get that, if you need to.” Without
blinking or checking the phone
he said, “You took the time and effort to get
together with me. Whoever
is calling didn’t. Now, what were you saying?”
All he did was ignore his
phone long enough to be present where his body
was. Not only did I feel
honored, but it also made me appreciate the gift
of being there. Prioritizing
those who are physically present can have a
transforming effect on us when
so many are digitally absent.”
-- Flickering Pixels, 107-108 Illustration by
Jim L. Wilson
1 Peter 5:1-4 (CEV) “Church leaders, I am
writing to encourage you.
I too am a leader, as well as a witness to
Christ's suffering, and I will
share in his glory when it is shown to us. (2)
Just as shepherds watch
over their sheep, you must watch over everyone
God has placed in your care.
Do it willingly in order to please God, and not
simply because you think
you must. Let it be something you want to do,
instead of something you
do merely to make money. (3) Don't be bossy to
those people who are in
your care, but set an example for them. (4) Then
when Christ the Chief
Shepherd returns, you will be given a crown that
will never lose its glory.”
COMMUNITY
In Flickering Pixels, Shane Hipps writes, “This
anonymous intimacy has
a strange effect. It provides just enough
connection to keep us from pursuing
real intimacy. In a virtual community, our
contacts involve very little
real risk and demand even less of us personally.
Vulnerability is optional.
A community that promises freedom from rejection
and makes authentic motional
investment optional can be extremely appealing,
remarkably efficient, and
a lot more convenient.”
-- Flickering Pixels, 113-114 Illustration by
Jim L. Wilson
Galatians 5:13 (CEV) “My friends, you were
chosen to be free. So don't
use your freedom as an excuse to do anything you
want. Use it as an opportunity
to serve each other with love.”
COMMUNITY
One of the blessings of being a Christian with
a church fellowship is
the community one can find in times of
heartache. The New Testament commands
Christians to mourn with those who mourn as well
as rejoice with others
who rejoice. For centuries men and women within
church fellowships have
been surrounded by friends who support them in
troubled times.
Today’s young women are turning to another
source for support. They
are finding help online, especially through
social media sites like Facebook.
When Ashley Webber learned she was pregnant, she
“posted the great news
to my Facebook at four weeks—pretty much the
minute we found out.”
Two weeks later, after a miscarriage, she again
posted to Facebook and
“was flooded with stories, encouragement,
prayers and love.” So supported
did she feel that when she became pregnant
again, she posted again. “People
still send me encouragement through Facebook,”
she says. “It has really
been a blessing.”
--USA Today, March 29, 2012, p. 3D Illustration
by Jim L. Wilson and
Rodger Russell
This is the type of community that every church
should strive to provide.
2 Corinthians 1:3-5 (ESV) Blessed be the God
and Father of our Lord
Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of
all comfort, who comforts
us in all our affliction, so that we may be able
to comfort those who are
in any affliction, with the comfort with which
we ourselves are comforted
by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s
sufferings, so through Christ
we share abundantly in comfort too.
COMMUNITY
Justin Shelton weighed over 450 pounds. His
wife Lauren weighed over
300 pounds when they got married in 2008. In Jan
2012 Justin was hospitalized
but he was too big for treatment. Together they
decided to do something
about it and in less than two years they have
shed 524 pounds.
The key for their success is that they did it
together. Lauren said
“The challenge brought us closer together. It
really strengthens you when
you’ve got something hard ahead of you and you
do it together.”
The root meaning of the word fellowship is
participation. As the church,
we have a tough road to share the gospel without
communities. If we will
work at it together it will strengthen each of
us. --Jim L. Wilson and
Rodger Russell
The Week, September 27, 2013 p. 2
Philippians 1:4-5 (NKJV) always in every prayer
of mine making request
for you all with joy, (5) for your fellowship in
the gospel from the first
day until now,
COMMUNITY
In his book, A Shared Christian Life, regarding
the concept of “a personal
relationship with Jesus,” Ben Witherington III
wrote, “There is something
odd about this whole question because the New
Testament says absolutely
nothing about individuals having a ‘personal’
relationship with Jesus,
in that precise sort of language, especially if
by “personal” one means
private or individualistic apart from anyone
else’s relationship with Christ.”
–Jim L. Wilson
--A Shared Christian Life, 21
Romans 12:5 (NKJV) so we, being many, are one
body in Christ, and individually
members of one another.
COMMUNITY
Raychelle
Cassada Lohmann, a professional
counselor gives the following advice about
coping with anxiety and depression,
“Fear of the unknown and uncertainty over how
long we’ll have to resort to
limiting our daily lives, fear of contracting
the coronavirus or even worry
about how this will affect one's financial
situation are legitimate concerns.
But it’s important to know that we are all in
this together. There are millions
of Americans who are worried about the same
thing and feeling the effects of
COVID-19. So, even though we are physically
isolated, we are not alone in how
we are feeling.” —Jim L. Wilson