Gerald Rodgers pastors a
church in Fredericksburg, Virginia three days a
week. The rest of week he oversees a group of
chaplains serving in a corporate
environment.
Rodgers is part of growing
group of chaplains who contract out to companies
seeking to add a religious component to their
employee assistance programs.
The chaplains offer
spiritually based counseling and guidance to
workers dealing with everything from divorce and
depression to illness or death. Employers say
they believe providing workers with spiritual
guidance and limiting their stress through a
chaplancy program increases productivity. John
Fisher, plant manage of 400 workers at Macsteel
says, “They say you need to leave problems at
work at work and problems at home at home, but
realistically you can’t do it. If they come to
work and aren’t thinking about making steel,
we’re in trouble.”
Chaplains walk a fine line
ministering to others while trying to avoid
offending an employee’s spiritual sensibilities
or breaking religious harassment laws. Rodgers
makes the rounds at a company of 700 employees,
He says, “The neat thing about what we do is
that we get to build relationships with people
before they have a crisis. Everyone who has
worked here for a length of time knows us.” He
believes the workplace is a good place to
counsel people, because many do not have a close
relationship with a pastor.
Kitty Hayden who first met
Rodgers when her mother was seriously ill says,
“Everyday he’s here, I talk to him. He’s such a
comfort.”
—www.washingtontimes.com,
Contract chaplains aid employee productivity,
by Tim Lemke, June 1, 2003. Illustration by Jim
L. Wilson and Jim Sandell.
2
Corinthians 1:3-4 NIV “Praise be to the
God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, and the
Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,
who comforts us in all our troubles so that we
can comfort those in any trouble with the
comfort we ourselves have received from God.”
COMFORT
Time Magazine named New
York Mayor Rudolph Giuliani their person of the
year for 2001. They chose him largely due to the
terrorist attack September 11th. Oddly, the same
date was the day many expected Giuliani to fade
from view. September 11 was primary election day
in New York City. Giuliani had served two terms,
and could not run again. The contest between
those vying for his job was expected to
overshadow Giuliani's remaining days in office.
Many New Yorkers believed history would paint
Giuliani as a great mayor, but a not-so-great
guy because of his temper and constant battles
with political enemies.
Since President Bush was
out of sight for much of September 11 due to
security concerns, Giuliani became the voice of
the nation that day. His voice was filled with
grief and strength, inspiring New York to
inspire the nation. He said, "Tomorrow New York
is going to be here. And we're going to rebuild,
and we're going to be stronger than we were
before … I want the people of New York to be an
example to the rest of the country, and the rest
of the world, that terrorism can't stop
us."
He was the gutsy decision
maker, balancing security against symbolism,
overruling those who wanted to keep the city
closed down. The mayor pushed key
institutions—from the New York Stock Exchange to
Major League Baseball—to reopen and prove that
New Yorkers were going on with life. He was the
crisis manager, bringing together major players
from city, state and federal governments for
daily meetings that got everyone working
together. Giuliani filled the role of
"consoler-in-chief," as his voice brimmed with
pain, compassion and love. When he said "the
number of casualties will be more than we can
bear," he showed a side of himself most people
had never seen.
The most interesting thing
about Time magazine's choice of Giuliani was the
field of possibilities for the honor. The
magazine admitted they were considering Osama
Bin Laden as person of the year. Those two men
stand in stark contrast after the events of
September 11th. We wonder who has the greatest
impact on the lives of others? Those who inflict
great pain and suffering, or those who offer
comfort and strength in trying times?
No one knows what the future
might hold for Rudolph Giuliani. We do know he
offered what was needed in a time of crisis. He
was not motivated by a desire to succeed
politically, but instead by the needs of the
people. On the other hand, Osama Bin Laden was
motivated by hate, malice, and a lust for
power.
None of us are likely to
named "Person of the Year," anytime soon, but
God does require us to minister to the needs of
others. He provides comfort to enable us to
comfort others.
Corinthians 1:3-5 "Praise be to
the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the
Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,
who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we
can comfort those in any trouble with the
comfort we ourselves have received from God, For
just as the sufferings of Christ flow over in
our lives, so also through Christ our comfort
overflows."
—www.time.com/poy2001,
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell
COMFORT
E-mail users tired of being
inundated with unsolicited "spam" messages can
find encouragement from the fact the man who
made much of today's computing possible receives
more junk e-mail than anyone else. Chief
Executive Officer for Microsoft, Steve Ballmer,
says Microsoft Chairman Bill Gates receives 4
million e-mails each day, and is probably the
most "spammed" person in the world.
Speaking at a conference in
Singapore, Ballmer added that only a few of the
junk messages get through thanks to technology
that filters Gate's messages.Ballmer said
Microsoft is developing better tools to tackle
the growing problem of unwanted e-mail messages.
The unwanted electronic solicitations represent
roughly 80 percent of all Internet traffic
today.
—Reuters, Microsoft's
Gates is World's Most "Spammed" Person,
November 18, 2004. Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
and Jim Sandell.
The fact that even Bill Gates
has to deal with junk e-mail should be
comforting to us because he can lead his company
to develop new ways of fighting "spam" that
benefits everyone who uses the Internet.
2
Cor. 1:3 (NIV) "Praise be to the God and
Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of
compassion and the God of all comfort."
COMFORT/HOPE
In a recent Frazier episode
Niles goes into the hospital for open-heart
surgery. His wife Daphne is distressed and
afraid. Throughout the episode the audience is
shown different vignettes of hospital visits by
Niles in his past. The last vignette takes place
right after Niles has come out of surgery and
Daphne is waiting for him to wake up. This one
is different. It is a glimpse into the future.
In it Niles is visiting Daphne in the same
hospital. He is holding a child and Daphne is
holding a newborn infant, and she says to the
child that Niles is holding, "Meet your new
sister." For all of the viewers the message is
clear: Niles is going to be OK, and there is
much happiness awaiting Daphne just around the
corner.
The Bible repeatedly urges us
to look into the future during our times of
darkness as well. The gospel message is that
everything is going to be okay, and there is
much happiness awaiting us just around the
corner.
—Illustration by Jim L.
Wilson and Dave Bootsma
Matthew
11:28 “Come to me, all you who are weary
and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
COMFORT/SUFFERING
When a person is diagnosed
with cancer, they often ask questions, such as
"Why me?" When doctors diagnosed Geraldine
Singleton with cancer for the second time, she
decided God had chosen to "lift her up."
Singleton survived breast cancer in 1994. Eight
years later, the disease returned as a brain
tumor and later spread to her bones. Since then,
Singleton has gone through a car accident, a
house fire, three small strokes, and the death
of a brother and two sisters. Singleton says God
has allowed her to suffer because she has the
courage to endure suffering. She feels called to
give hope to people without strength.
Singleton serves as an
unofficial counselor at an Atlanta Hospital. She
meets fellow patients at their bedsides, or
lends a listening ear to those in the waiting
room. Experts have noticed that cancer patients
do not always welcome unsolicited advice from
strangers, but the words of cancer veterans
carry a special weight. Singleton wants cancer
patients to know they are not alone. She says
she knows God will never leave her or forsake
her. She knows what it's like for fear to
paralyze her and remembers the pain and
humiliation of losing control of her body and
being dependent on others. Singleton adds, "I
choose to believe I'm a flower that has received
the rain, and I get to blossom and bloom. I'm
just grateful, and I want to share it with
people."
—USA TODAY, Cancer's higher
calling, November 23, 2005. Illustration by Jim
L. Wilson and Jim Sandell.
2
Corinthians 1:5-6 (NLT) "You can be sure
that the more we suffer for Christ, the more God
will shower us with his comfort through Christ.
[6] So when we are weighed down with troubles,
it is for your benefit and salvation! For when
God comforts us, it is so that we, in turn, can
be an encouragement to you. Then you can
patiently endure the same things we suffer."
COMFORT
Sometimes comfort needs to be more than words.
“The New York Times reports that touch is its
own complicated, highly accurate, highly
effective signaling system.” They interpret that
to mean that high fives and sympathetic touches
can say more than words.
--Reader’s Digest, May 2010, p24
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Rodger Russell
Part of our responsibility as believers to one
another is to provide comfort. Sometimes words
might help, but more often, a touch is very
useful. We have known for years that sometimes
people just need a hug.
2 Corinthians 1:3-6 (NIV) (3) Praise be to the
God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the
Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,
(4) who comforts us in all our troubles, so that
we can comfort those in any trouble with the
comfort we ourselves have received from God. (5)
For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over
into our lives, so also through Christ our
comfort overflows. (6) If we are distressed, it
is for your comfort and salvation; if we are
comforted, it is for your comfort, which
produces in you patient endurance of the same
sufferings we suffer.
COMFORT
Firefighters in Bayton,
Texas responded to a 911 call for a man who
suffered a heart attack while mowing his lawn.
After taking the man to the hospital, several
members of the Department’s crew returned to the
home to finish mowing the yard. Afterward, they
put the mower away and locked the garage too.
The crew left a note for the victim’s wife
saying they were sorry her husband had become
ill, and telling her to let them know if she
needed anything. The man later died at the
hospital, but the when other members of the
community heard of the firefighters kindness,
they issued a statement saying, “All of our City
employees are proud to serve the citizens of
Baytown, but this is truly special. We couldn’t
be prouder of our guys from Station 4. Our
prayers are with the family at this sad
time.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
Texas firefighters comfort
grieving widow with act of kindness, By Geetika
Rudra,
http://www.whas11.com/home/talkers/Texas-firefighters-comfort-grieving-widow-with-act-of-kindness-273312251.html,
Accessed
August 30, 2014
2 Corinthians 1:4 (HCSB) He
comforts us in all our affliction, so that we
may be able to comfort those who are in any kind
of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves
receive from God.
COMFORT
In Shattered Dreams, Patrick Mead writes, “Life
is not about you and your dreams, shattered or
otherwise. It is about God’s plan of redemption.
A plan you get to be a part of when you accepted
His precious gift of salvation. And a plan you
get to participate in as you submit your
shattered dreams to Him. He redeems them for His
purposes. While your shattered dreams may never
be fulfilled—your life can be fulfilled. Not
because you get to have everything you want, but
because you have Him and He has you. Whether you
walk on the mountaintops of desire, or the
valley of the shadow of death, you will not be
alone, because He is with you.” --Jim L. Wilson
--Shattered Dreams, 115
Psalm 23:4 (NKJV) ‘Yea, though I walk through
the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear
no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your
staff, they comfort me.’
For more information on Shattered Dreams, go to
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1505351596/fm082-20
COMFORT
Many people have a hard time knowing what to
say when they discover a friend has a serious
illness. To help them find the right words,
greeting card writer and designer Emily McDowell
has created a new line of card she calls empathy
cards. McDowell’s cards as so popular that she
has had to hire ten new employees to keep up
with demand. McDowell says her cards do not
offer platitudes or false cheer, instead they
are funny, honest, and even poke fun at the
platitudes that people often reach for. She
writes from experience because when she was
diagnosed with cancer 20 years ago, many of
friends disappeared. McDowell said that when
people did say things, they often made her feel
worse. She feels our culture does a poor job of
preparing anyone to talk about illness or death,
so she decided to help. She is honored that she
has found a way to help people during trying
times, and says, “I’m getting so much feedback
from people that these are actually making a
difference in their lives. And that is
incredibly humbling and incredibly emotional for
me.”— Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell.
Greeting Card Designer Provides New Comfort
With 'Empathy Cards, By Anne Thompson,
http://www.nbcnews.com/nightly-news/cards-n359786,
Accessed May 27, 2015
Job 21:34 (HCSB) (34) So how can you
offer me such futile comfort? Your answers are
deceptive.
Comfort
Federal and local authorities
responded to the need when excessive amounts of
lead were discovered in the drinking water in
Flint Michigan.They were a joined by Baptists from the
area. Most residents were only able to one case
of water per day, but many families need more
due to cooking and drinking. The Baptist group
brought an additional truckload of water and
gave up to three and four cases of water to
those in need. Ed Emmerling is pastor at
Westside Baptist Church were the distribution
took place. Emmerling said as volunteers handed
out the water, they prayed with residents,
invited them to church, and told them about
Jesus.He
said the church would not have been able to buy
that much water, but when churches across the
country pooled their resources, the need was
met.He
added, “We had many opportunities to tell people
that we doing this as a way to show our love for
them, because Christ loves us and He loves them
too –and we’d love to tell them more about that
love.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell.
Flint water crisis draws
Southern Baptist response, By Tobin Perry,
http://www.bpnews.net/46210/flint-water-crisis-draws-southern-baptists-response,
Accessed
January 27, 2016.
2 Corinthians 1:4 (HCSB)4
He comforts us in all our affliction, so that we
may be able to comfort those who are in any kind
of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves
receive from God.
COMFORT
When Tene Tucker returned
from her vacation there was a pile of mail
waiting for her. Most of it was the usual
collection of bills and junk mail, but one
letter caught her attention.The
letter was addressed to her home, but it was
marked “Return to Sender” and postmarked in
1967. Instead, Tucker found a letter written by
a woman who had lived in the house 52 years
earlier.It
was a note to her son, asked how he was. Since
the woman’s letter was never received, Tuckerchecked
to see if she might still be alive. She found
the woman and delivered the letter. Then she
leaned that the woman and the young man she had
written it to, her biological nephew, both have
Alzheimer’s disease.She
learned that the man had disappeared ten years
ago and had not been heard from. Tucker said she
hopes the letter and the awareness it raised
might help locate the man. She said, “It’s like
opening a time capsule. It just floored me, so I
opened it and read it. It was pretty sweet.”—Jim
L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
2 Corinthians 1:4 (CSB) “He
comforts us in all our affliction, so that we
may be able to comfort those who are in any kind
of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves
receive from God.”
COMFORT
Traveling with
her son gave Kendra Robins an idea to minster
to homeless children around the country.
Robins noticed that her son slept better away
from home when he had a familiar item to
snuggle with. She realized children spending
an evening in a homeless shelter might be
afraid to sleep because they did not have
comfort items with them. Robins began
collecting and assembling tote bags filled a
stuffed animal, an age appropriate book, and a
blanket and donating them to local homeless
shelters.The project quickly spread nationwide
and now, involves thousands of volunteers.
Robins said more than a million young children
are expected to spend at least one night in a
homeless shelter this year. She welcomes help
and insists that items be unused. She said new
items assure children, “that you are special,
that someone values you…you are worth
something new.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
He
comforts us in all our affliction, so that we
may be able to comfort those who are in any kind
of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves
receive from God.
COMFORT/CONSOLATION
First responders in
Bulgaria used cheerful face masks to combat
fears over the spread of the coronvirus.The
masks were printed with owls, dinosaurs, llamas,
and monkeys and were given to hundreds of
doctors and police officers at no cost. The
company that made the special masks normally
produced sleeping bags for babies and have been
recognized for social responsibility campaigns.The
company said they stopped normal production for
a week and made about 3,000 masks to send to
hospitals and police stations.They
warned that the masks were not medically
certified and recommended washing and ironing
them daily.They advised the masks were designed for
those who dealt with large numbers of people on
a daily basis.Co-owner of the company Desislava Yankova
said, “The idea came to us spontaneously as we
got calls from friends asking us to sew the
masks.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
When Lexi Longstreet of
Junction City. Oregon heard that families with
children fleeing wildfires had come to a high
school in their area in search of necessities,
she invited some friends to bring comfort and
companionship to the children. Longstreet owns a
party shop and took the role of Belle from
Beauty and the Beast. She invited superheroes
Batman and Superman to join her.The
trio played games, read books, and gave hugs to
the children. Longstreet said she and her
friends thought it was important that everyone
have a hero to look up to in hard times. She
added, “It’s a mission to ‘bring hope back to
our community.’”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
In early
December 2020, four-year old twins Luna and
Gianella Gonzales released helium
filled balloons containing five holiday
wishes. The girls included a list of
presents they hoped to receive for Christmas.Weeks later, the girl’s mother learned
that someone had shared a picture
of Luna’s pink, star-shaped balloon on social
media. Alvin Bamburg of
Shreveport, Louisiana found the balloon while
hunting near Grand Cane,
Louisiana, about 650 miles away from the
Gonzales’ home in Kansas.Gonzales
said if anyone responded by sending
the gifts the girls requested, they would be
donated because the twins had a
good holiday season. In a television interview
she said, “It was something
different for the girls – a memory they could
keep after a rough 2020.” She
added, “It was just so cold and windy. I
didn’t expect them to go that
far.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell