1999's Super Bowl was
remembered more for "the night before" than for
the game itself. On Saturday before Super Bowl
XXXIII, safety Eugene Robinson was awarded the
NFL's first Bart Starr Award from the Fellowship
of Christian Athletes for high moral character
on Saturday afternoon. On Saturday night he was
arrested and charged with offering $40 to an
undercover police woman in exchange for illicit
sexual favor. Falcon's General Manager had to
bail him out of jail. Robinson still started in
the game, but the monstrous story may well have
contributed to the Falcon's poor performance in
their loss to the Denver Broncos.
"The Lord does not look at
the things man looks at. Man looks at the
outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the
heart" (1 Samuel 16:7).
—The Tennessean (1/28/00)
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Ed Rowell
CHARACTER
Billy Graham said, "When
wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is
lost, something is lost; when character is lost,
all is lost."
Proverbs
22:1 KJV "A good name is rather to be
chosen than great riches, and loving favour
rather than silver and gold."
CHARACTER
In 1788, George Washington
said, "I hope I shall always possess firmness
and virtue enough to maintain (what I consider
the most enviable of all titles) the character
of an honest man."
—What would they Say? p. 43
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
In the 2004 NBA draft, the
Orlando Magic decided to make a high school
senior their first overall pick. 18-year-old
Dwight Howard was the third high-schooler taken
first overall in past four years and follows
last year's top pick, LeBron James. Howard, a 6
ft 11, 240-pound forward from Southwest Atlanta
Christian Academy is known as "Choirboy" and
received an award marking him as the nation's
top high school player this past season.
The Orlando Magic hope to
redeem themselves after a dismal record of 21-61
last season. Orlando's General Manager says,
"When you come into a draft you're addressing
the needs of your team, but when you have the
No. 1 pick your responsibility is to pick the
best player." Many of the high-schoolers drafted
did not fare well in the NBA. Some found their
physical skills could not make up for a lack of
basketball knowledge, while others did not have
the maturity to handle the fortune and fame that
comes with playing professional
basketball.
When asked about Orlando's
choice, Howard said, "They picked the best
person for the job. Now it's going to be based
on my work ethic. I just go out there and play
hard every night." He adds, "Aside from
basketball, the best thing I bring to the table
is my character. I'm not going to change because
I've got the money and I'm No. 1."
1
Tim. 4:12 (NIV) “Don't let anyone look
down on you because you are young, but set an
example for the believers in speech, in life, in
love, in faith and in purity.”
—Reuters, Magic Take
18-Year-Old Howard as First Pick in Draft,
June 24, 2004; http://aolsvc.news.aol.com,
CNN, Magic: No reason not to pick Howard,
June 25, 2004.
Illustration by Jim L.
Wilson and Jim Sandell.
CHARACTER
It didn’t take long for the
baseball world to take sides over Sammy Sosa’s
indiscretion over using a corked bat at the
plate. Some say he was trying to break out of
his batting funk created by being hit in the
head by a pitch a few weeks before. Others took
him at his word; he simply picked up the wrong
bat as he was going to the plate—a bat that he
said he used to put on a hitting show for the
crowds during batting practice. I want to
believe Sammy—most fans want to believe Sammy,
because Sammy has become a celebrity to most
people and a hero to others—even to people who
aren’t baseball fans.
In an editorial for USA
Today, Andrew Abrams offers some insight into
the difference between celebrities and heroes.
“Society is generally eager to forgive when its
heroes occasionally stumble. However, consistent
with heroic mythic, when the heroes falter
because of character flaws, they must realize
the error of their ways and seek forgiveness
with sincere remorse. Often this realization and
redemption, if anything, make the hero even more
heroic. Importantly, though, this redemption
cannot come from a clutch home run or a
game-saving acrobatic catch. The issue is not
the physical prowess of the hero, but rather the
individual’s character, because talent without
character creates celebrities, not
heroes.”
—USA Today, June 19, 2003,
p. 13A Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
Character does count. In
the end, it is the true measure of a man, you
can measure the popularity of a man by the
length of the shadow he casts on society, but
the real value of the man is in the trueness of
his heart. The talents God gives us are His gift
to us. What we do with them—the life of
integrity we lead is our gift back to Him. No,
I’m not talking about home runs, corked bats,
denials, suspensions or fines—I’m talking about
living life with integrity in the spotlight or
in obscurity. We need people who don’t use
“corked bats” in games or in batting practice.
We have enough celebrities. We need heroes—men
and women with character.
Psalm
26:1 KJV “Judge me, O Lord; for I have
walked in mine integrity: I have trusted also in
the Lord; therefore I shall not slide.”
CHARACTER
Laura Goff and Suzanna
Connor are not exactly the type of people you
would want to find your wallet if you lost it.
Goff is serving time in Idaho for burglary,
grand theft and writing bad checks. Connor was
arrested for driving under the influence.
Recently, the two women
found more than $500 while serving on a work
detail cleaning the highway shoulder. While
picking up empty aluminum cans and scraps of
trash, Connor found a single faded large
denomination bill. A few minutes later, Goff
spotted several more. Instead of stuffing the
money into their pockets, the women brought it
to Corrections Officer Mike Higgins. Higgins
originally thought the bills might be money from
a board game, but later discovered they were
genuine.
The money was given to
authorities. Connor says she never thought about
keeping the money. She wants the money to go to
charity if it is not claimed.
—www.yahoonews.com,
December 10, 2003, Prisoners Find Money,
Turn it In . Illustration by Jim L.
Wilson and Jim Sandell.
1
Peter 2:12 NIV "Live such good lives among
the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing
wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify
God on the day he visits us."
CHARACTER
More than 100 people took
advantage of a computer glitch at a gas station
in Pittsfield Township, Michigan recently.
Someone discovered that a computer problem
allowed customers to swipe their driver's
licenses instead of a credit card at the pump,
thus receiving a free fill up. As the word
spread, over 100 people took advantage of the
opportunity for free gas over a three-week
period. Police say some of the customers
returned up to 15 times. They also say, they
will not have a problem finding the pirates. The
gas station's computer stored the driver's
license information from each of the people who
thought they were stealing gas. Police will
track each person down, and give them the
opportunity to make things right with the gas
company.
—World Magazine, Gas
Guzzlers, May 22, 2004, pg. 13.
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell.
One person discovered the
glitch, and then invited others to join in an
illegal activity. Everybody has influence. The
only question is, will you use your influence
for evil or for good—the choice is yours.
Hebrews
10:24 NIV "And let us consider how we may
spur one another on toward love and good deeds."
CHARACTER
New experiments performed
on mice suggest that soot and pollutants from
factories and highways may cause genetic damage
that can be passed on to future generations.
There had not been evidence that air pollution
might cause the kind of genetic damage that
could be inherited until scientists in 2002
placed mice downwind from steel mills and tested
their offspring. The males passed on double the
DNA mutations than mice that lived in cleaner
environments. The latest experiments housed two
groups of mice downwind from steel mills. One
group breathed outside air while the other group
breathed filtered air. The mice that breathed
filtered air had mutation rates 52-percent lower
than the mice exposed to full strength steel
mill pollution.
The culprit is tiny
particulates that can be inhaled deeply into the
lungs, enter the bloodstream, and move about the
body. Researchers say further study is needed to
determine exactly what is taking place, but say
the potential for effecting future generations
makes it "both a public health issue and an
issue for the ecosystem."
Dr. Jonathan Samet of Johns
Hopkins University, who headed the recent study
for the National Academy of Sciences says, “At
the moment, we are grappling with the fact that
even though the air is visibly cleaner, we're
still finding adverse health effects." He adds
“The new work now adds another area of
‘potential concern’ because of the implications
for future generations.”
—www.cbsnews.com, Study:
Bad Air May Alter Your DNA, May 14, 2004,
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell.
The environment we live in
can impact our spiritual health and
character.
1
Cor. 15:33 (MsgB) “But don't fool
yourselves. Don't let yourselves be poisoned by
this anti-resurrection loose talk. "Bad company
ruins good manners."
CHARACTER
Tiger Woods may just be the
most famous person with the ailment, but many
Americans have bad knees. It is enough of a
problem that 660,000 web sites are related to
sore knees and how to care for them. They
feature exercises and stretches designed to help
prevent knee surgery.
That’s a lot of
websites! But not as many as devote
themselves to the problem of ugly knees--over 4
million. As it turns out, more Americans are
concerned with knobby or fat knees than are
interested in preventing serious joint
pain.
--USA Today, December 22,
2008, p. 4D Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and
Rodger Russell
God has called us to be as
clean and pure on the inside as we appear on the
outside. Do we spend too much time dressing up
the body while neglecting the spirit?
Matthew 23:27 (NASB77) "Woe
to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For
you are like whitewashed tombs which on the
outside appear beautiful, but inside they are
full of dead men's bones and all
uncleanness.”
CHARACTER
In his book, 360 Degree
Leader, John Maxwell writes, “We tend to put a
lot of emphasis on intelligence and skill in
this country. And while those things are
important, they cannot substitute for strong
character.”
--360 Degree Leader, 75.
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
Acts 24:16 (NIV) “So I
strive always to keep my conscience clear before
God and man.”
CHARACTER
When choosing players for
the NFL, character joins speed, size, and skill
as a necessary trait. As teams prepare for the
draft, players with questionable character fall
in priority. Most of the time when teams choose
high-risk players the down side outweighs any
benefit from their ability.
The NFL isn’t the only
place where character counts. It counts in every
walk of life. Do we pay enough attention to
character building in our families and
churches?
--World Magazine, May 23,
2009, p. 23. Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
and Rodger Russell
Proverbs 11:5 (NIV) The
righteousness of the blameless makes a straight
way for them, but the wicked are brought down by
their own wickedness.
CHARACTER
John Maxwell defines
character as, “The sum of my behaviors, public
and private, consistently arranged across the
entire spectrum of my life.”
--Life at Work, 182.
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Rowdy
Morris.
Philippians 2:15 (MSG) Go
out into the world uncorrupted, a breath of
fresh air in this squalid and polluted society.
Provide people with a glimpse of good living and
of the living God. Carry the light-giving
Message into the night
CHARACTER
While it is true that
people will obey their bosses, if for no other
reason to keep their jobs, real influence isn’t
wielded by brute force, but from personal
relationships and character. In his book,
Leadership as a Lifestyle: The Path to Personal
Integrity and Positive Influence, John Hawkins
writes, “Leadership is a lifestyle, not a
position. Solid sustained leadership flows
primarily out of who we are, not out of what
position we hold.”
-- Leadership as a
Lifestyle: The Path to Personal Integrity and
Positive Influence, p. 16. Illustration by Jim
L. Wilson and Rowdy Morris.
Proverbs 22:1 (HCSB) A good
name is to be chosen over great wealth; favor is
better than silver and gold.
CHARACTER
As Super Bowl 44 drew closer, attention focused
on the teams involved, the Indianapolis Colts
and the New Orleans Saints. The Colts had been
in the NFL playoffs, numerous times, as had
multiple coaches and players. The one constant
over the time frame is the team’s chaplain Ken
Johnson. Johnson joined the team under former
head coach Tony Dungy and served the team when
they won their first Super Bowl a couple of
seasons again. Johnson says despite the other
changes, the team knows they can confide in him
because he has been with the team as long as or
longer than most of the players.
As he prepared to provide spiritual guidance
before the big game, Johnson said. “I don’t pray
for anything in my life that I don’t want God’s
favor. I want a good life with a good
foundation.” He told reporters he planned to
remind the team that although they have been in
the big game before, God still calls for
excellence in everything they did. Johnson said
his concern goes beyond winning another
championship, he added, “The goal is the same –
what is the moral compass of each player and how
does that help them set a good foundation.”
Colts chaplain maintains continuity,
http://www.bpsports.net/bpsports.asp?ID=6144 ;
February 2, 2010. Illustration by Jim L. Wilson
and Jim Sandell.
Proverbs 11:3 (NIV) “The integrity of the
upright guides them, but the unfaithful are
destroyed by their duplicity.”
CHARACTER
Jackie Chan said, “I just want people to
remember me like I remember Buster Keaton. When
they talk about Buster Keaton or Gene Kelly,
people say, 'Ah yes, they good.' Maybe one day,
they remember Jackie Chan that way.”
-http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/j/jackie_chan.html
(accessed: 7/13/2010) Illustration by Jim L.
Wilson and Wilson Tsoi.
We value people on their outstanding
accomplishment, such as Jackie Chan’s success,
but we always neglect the deeper desire and the
inner character.
Philippians 4:8-9. (ESV) “Finally, brothers,
whatever is true, whatever is honorable,
whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is
lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any
excellence, if there is anything worthy of
praise, think about these things. What you have
learned and received and heard and seen in
me—practice these things, and the God of peace
will be with you.”
CHARACTER
Most people believe they are good people, with
high standards and better than average
character. They also believe they have a
satisfying lifestyle and an ethic. According to
a poll taken by the Josephson Institute of
Ethics, 92% of American High School students
actually say they are satisfied with their own
personal ethics and character.
These same students say they have cheated on a
test during the past year, 59%; stole from a
parent or other relative, 21%; say they have
lied about “something significant” to a parent,
80%.
--The Week, February 25, 2011 p. 23
Illustration by Jim L. Wilson and Rodger Russell
Most people, including teens, compare their
ethics and morality to those of their peers and
find themselves adequate. They are just like
their friends, or perhaps a little better.
Unfortunately, God’s standards are different.
Matthew 5:48 (HCSB) Be perfect, therefore, as
your heavenly Father is perfect.
CHARACTER
Major League Baseball executives say they have
difficulty faulting players for trying to gain
an edge by using illegal drugs that enhance
their performance. Cleveland Indians President
Mark Shapiro said, “The mentality to do whatever
possible exists throughout society, in any free
market system, the greater reward, the higher
propensity for violation.” One manager speaking
anonymously admitted it would surprise him if he
learned seven or eight of his players were using
the performance enhancing drugs.
The excuse, “everybody is doing it,” just
doesn’t fly. It didn’t work with my mom; it
shouldn’t work with MLB. Integrity demands we
make the right choice, even if we could get away
with dishonesty. --Jim L. Wilson and Rodger
Russell
USA Today, August 17, 2012 p. 1C
1 Thessalonians 4:6 (HCSB) “This means one must
not transgress against and defraud his brother
in this matter, because the Lord is an avenger
of all these offenses, as we also previously
told and warned you.”
CHARACTER
Dan Ariely, who teaches behavioral economics at
Duke University says that all of us “Cheat up to
the level that allows us to retain our self
images as reasonably honest individuals.” A team
of researchers determined “We want to see
ourselves as honorable, but we also want to
benefit from cheating.”
In the list of suggestions for overcoming this
dishonesty is the recognition of people who do
the right thing. “Hold them up as examples,” he
says. Our goal should be to be one of the people
who do the right thing, be an example--Jim L.
Wilson and Rodger Russell
USA Today, August 20, 2012 p. 4B
Ephesians 4:25 (HCSB) “Since you put away
lying, Speak the truth, each one to his
neighbor, because we are members of one
another.”
CHARACTER
What is the ethics of stealing? Terry J. Davis
at the University of Louisville should be able
to look it up for you in the book that he stole
from the on-campus library. The title of the
book is “Resolving Ethical Issues.” –Jim L.
Wilson and Rodger Russell
World, August 25, 2012 p. 19
1 Peter 4:15 (NKJV) But let none of you suffer
as a murderer, a thief, an evildoer, or as a
busybody in other people's matters.
CHARACTER
Accusations are flowing regarding the athletic
programs at Harvard. University president Drew
Faust says the cheating scandal at the school is
not just about athletes. “Harvard announced last
month that as many as 125 students in one course
were being investigated for sharing answers or
plagiarizing their results on an open-book,
take-home final exam.”
The Proverbs remind us of the lack of
satisfaction in cheating. “Bread gained by
deceit is sweet to a man, but afterward his
mouth will be full of gravel.” Proverbs 20:17
(ESV) –Jim L. Wilson and Rodger Russell
USA Today, September 14, 2012 p. C2
Proverbs 20:17 (TEV) What you get by dishonesty
you may enjoy like the finest food, but sooner
or later it will be like a mouthful of
sand.
CHARACTER
Lance Armstrong captured Americans hearts as a
cancer survivor who won seven Tour de France
titles. Americans love an underdog. His
Livestrong foundation has raised approximately
$500 million. For many years he denied the
accusations of cheating. The adoring American
public chose to believe him.
His fall from grace has been dramatic after the
U.S. Anti-Doping Agency announced overwhelming
evidence of doping. His sponsors cut ties with
him in a matter of days. Lance Armstrong craved
the approval of man. He did whatever it took to
be a champion, even cheat. –Jim L. Wilson and
Tim Hammond
Matthew 16:26 (HCSB) What will it benefit a man
if he gains the whole world yet loses his life?
Or what will a man give in exchange for his
life?
CHARACTER
In Hastings, MN a man found an envelope filled
with $1,000 cash. He turned it into the police
anonymously, but not before helping himself to
20%. Skimming $200 from the stash, he included a
note indicating that he was short on cash and
really needed the $200. It is illegal to help
yourself to a reward.
How honest do you have to be to be honest? The
finder could have kept the whole amount. Did
keeping only 20% make him more honest than if he
had kept it all? What about the note? He could
have turned it in to the police with no mention
of the missing money. --Jim L. Wilson and Rodger
Russell
World, November 3, 2012 p. 25
Acts 24:16 (HCSB) “I always do my best to have
a clear conscience toward God and men.”
CHARACTER
A study conducted by the Josephson Institute of
Ethics has found that the number of high school
students who admit to cheating, lying or
stealing has dropped for the first time in ten
years. The survey is conducted every other year
and includes a sample of 23,000 students from
around the nation. The number of respondents who
said had cheated on an exam dropped from 59
percent to 51 percent between 2010 and 2012,
while the number of students who admitted to
stealing from a store dropped from 27 percent to
20 percent. Though the overall numbers were
good, the institute says the boys were more
likely to be dishonest with 45 percent saying
that felt a person has to lie and cheat
occasionally compared to only 28 percent of
women. Founder and President of the Institute
Michael Josephson says he thinks the results
offer hope and may indicate the beginning of a
downward trend. He added, “Changes in children’s
behavior of this magnitude suggest a major shift
in parenting and school involvement in issues of
honesty and character.”
—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
Students across the country are displaying more
character by Cathy Payne,
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2012/11/25/high-school-students-cheating/1719297,
Accessed
November 25. 2012.
Proverbs 2:21 (ESV) For the upright will
inhabit the land, and those with integrity will
remain in it,
CHARACTER
We should live our lives in such a way that we
can serve as a role model for others.
Unfortunately in our present society sports
figures influence our behavior more than faith
leaders. A recent survey by the Barna Group
found that 64% of American adults say sports
figures have a greater influence on society than
clergy or other faith leaders. Only 19% say it
is the other way around.
The role models we choose will be a part of
determining the direction of our society. --Jim
L. Wilson and Rodger Russell
The Week, March 1, 2013 p. 17
1 Timothy 4:12 (ESV) Let no one despise you for
your youth, but set the believers an example in
speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in
purity.
CHARACTER
The way your desk looks may say a lot more
about you than you think. Results from a
new study indicate that people with messy desk
may live less healthy, but more interesting
lives, while people who keep their desks
organized tend to be fit and get all their work
done. The research appeared in the journal
Psychological Science, and was originally
designed to see what effect a messy desk has on
people. Researchers put volunteers behind messy
desks and clean desks and asked them to perform
a series of tasks. Afterwards, participants were
allowed to choose a snack, selecting between a
healthy option and one that was not so
healthy. Each time, the people who had
organized desks choose a healthier alternative
snack than those at messy desks. Behavioral
scientist Kathleen Vohs from the Carlson School
of Management at the University of Minnesota
lead the study, and said messy desks seemed to
lead people to seek novel approaches to their
problems, favoring creativity and
innovation. At the same time, these people
also tended toward less healthy snacks. Vohs
noted that people with organized desks often
choose healthier snacks, and got more work done,
but they were less creative.—Jim L. Wilson and
Jim Sandell
Before You Straighten Up Your Desk, Read This,
By Alice Park,
http://healthland.time.com/2013/09/20/before-you-straighten-up-your-desk-read-this,
Accessed
September 20, 2013.
Romans 7:15 (NKJV) (15) For what I am doing, I
do not understand. For what I will to do, that I
do not practice; but what I hate, that I
do.
CHARACTER
When an employer mistreats an employee, one
possible response is to quit. Another possibly
would be to convince the entire staff to quit at
the same time. After the manager of a
footwear and apparel store in a New York mall
was rude to an employee, all three employees of
the store quit. They wrote a note in pink
marker, explaining why they were quitting, and
left it for everyone at the mall to see. To make
matters worse, the employees walked out in the
middle of the day during the busy back to school
shopping season. Mall officials say the
store has since reopened, but the owner was
fined for not opening on time.—Jim L. Wilson and
Jim Sandell
Store's entire staff up and quits, leaves
amazing note for boss,
http://now.msn.com/mall-staff-quits-leaves-boss-epic-note-at-journeys-store,
Accessed
September 4, 2013.
Philippians 2:3 (NASB) (3) Do nothing from
selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility
of mind regard one another as more important
than yourselves;
CHARACTER
Abraham Zapruder accidently took perhaps the
most famous home movie of all time. He captured
the assassination of President John Kennedy on
his 8 mm movie camera. Later that day when
reporters discovered that the film existed there
was a rush to purchase the film and the rights
to it. The competition for the film was won by
Life Magazine.
Richard B. Stolley was the Life reporter who
secured the film for his magazine. Years later
and after Zapruder was dead, he was told why he
was able to get the film. “You were a
gentleman,” Zapruders business associate told
him. He added, “you didn’t badger Zapruder. . .
. you treated Him with respect during our
negotiations.” The other reason and the one that
“floored” Stolley was the way Stolley treated
Zapruder’s secretary. He treated her with
respect where others treated her harshly.
Our Christian character should be such that we
treat every person as more important than
ourselves. In this case it certainly paid off
for Life and reporter Stolley. --Jim L. Wilson
and Rodger Russell
“How the Zapruder Film Came to Life,” Time,
October 21, 2013, pp. 38-41
Philippians 2:3–4 (HCSB) Do nothing out of
rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider
others as more important than yourselves. 4
Everyone should look out not only for his own
interests, but also for the interests of
others.
CHARACTER
Houston Texans running back Arian Foster
recently confessed to accepting under-the-table
payments while he was in Tennessee, in violation
of NCAA rules. It wasn’t an apology, it was a
declaration. “There is nothing wrong with it and
you are not going to convince me that there is.”
The fact that it is against the rules plays no
bearing on the incident for Foster. He believes
he was right because the system is corrupt. It
is not cheating because the rules are
hypocritical and it is not cheating because
everyone is doing it.
Foster’s attitude is the exact opposite of the
attitude of the Christian we find in Ephesians.
In chapter 4 we find Paul’s explanation of a
Christian lifestyle. Somehow cheating and
justifying it doesn’t fit. --Jim L. Wilson and
Rodger Russell
Sports Illustrated, October 14, 2013, p. 68
Mark 7:20–23 (HCSB) Then He said, “What comes
out of a person—that defiles him. 21 For from
within, out of people’s hearts, come evil
thoughts, sexual immoralities, thefts, murders,
22 adulteries, greed, evil actions, deceit,
promiscuity, stinginess, blasphemy, pride, and
foolishness. 23 All these evil things come from
within and defile a person.”
CHARACTER
People choice a lot of different type of
pictures to use for their online profiles. Some
people use head shots of themselves, while
others use pictures of their spouses, pets,
children, or some other symbol. The wide variety
of photos being used to represent people on
social media, researchers at the University of
California decided look at what causes a person
to be perceived as attractive. Drew Walker and
Edward Vul, who headed the study, said that a
photo with friends conveys that a person is
amiable and well liked, but that is not what
makes a person more appealing. Their research
found that individual faces appear more
attractive when presented in a group as opposed
to being presented alone. This perception driven
effect is known as the cheerleader effect,
because other studies have found that people
perceive cheerleaders look better as a group
than alone. Walker and Vul suggest that the
effect is a result of the way the brain averages
images. In a group, we tend to see individual
members as being more like the group and
perceive each face as similar to the average of
all the faces in that crowd. They found that
group size is less important. While they
admit that some of the effect may be due to
group scenes conveying social or emotional
information, from the perspective of someone
else, being part of makes people seem more
attractive overall.—Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell
The Cheerleader Effect, By Cindy May,
http://news.yahoo.com/cheerleader-effect-123500090.html,
Accessed December 3, 2013
John 7:24 (NASB) "Do not judge according to
appearance, but judge with righteous
judgment."
CHARACTER
The cell-phone video of a woman paying for
diapers for a cash strapped young mother went
viral after another shopper who witnessed the
act of kindness and put it on his Facebook page.
Carol Flynn had just paid for her purchase and
was preparing to leave the store, when she
overheard a young woman behind her ask the
cashier to price match the price on four boxes
of diapers. The young woman was not able to
afford all of the diapers because the cashier
would only match the price for one box. Flynn
went back to the register and used her card to
buy the diapers for the young mother. The man
who posted the video said he was speechless at
the warmhearted and kind act of generosity. When
asked about the experience later, the young
mother said, “If you ever needed a sign that
God’s there for you in the hardships and
struggles, this is it.” When asked about her
actions in an interview, Flynn said, “You can’t
take it with you. I just think we should do
things like that.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
Video of woman in Walmart paying for young
mother's diaper purchase goes viral, By Jay
Dillon,http://www.okcfox.com/story/25930122/video-of-woman-in-walmart-paying-for-young-mothers-diaper-purchase-goes-viral,
Accessed
July 2, 2014.
Colossians 3:12–13 (HCSB) Therefore, God’s
chosen ones, holy and loved, put on heartfelt
compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and
patience, 13 accepting one another and forgiving
one another if anyone has a complaint against
another. Just as the Lord has forgiven you, so
you must also forgive.
CHARACTER
Caring for others is a character issue. Raymond
Burse is the president of Kentucky State
University. With a salary of $350,000, Burse is
well paid for the challenges he faces leading a
major state university. Recently Burse took a
voluntary pay cut to $260,000. The $90,000 the
university didn’t pay him Burse set up to give
$3 per hour raises to all the universities
minimum wage workers. When asked why he was
willing to do this, he replied, “I did this for
the people. This is something I’ve been thinking
about from the very beginning.”
It is one thing to advocate with your mouth
that people ought to be paid more. It is another
to put your paycheck on the line. Jim L. Wilson
and Rodger Russell
--The Week, August 15, 2014 p. 2
1 Timothy 6:17-18 (HCSB) Instruct those who are
rich in the present age not to be arrogant or to
set their hope on the uncertainty of wealth, but
on God, who richly provides us with all things
to enjoy. (18) ?Instruct them? to do what is
good, to be rich in good works, to be generous,
willing to share,
CHARACTER
A woman suspected of stealing someone’s cell
phone called 911 to report that the person whom
the phone belonged to would not leave her alone.
When police responded they found a man and woman
waiting for them at a gas station. The woman
told police that the man had been napping on a
Metro bus and when he awoke he started accusing
her and her boyfriend of taking his phone. The
man told authorities that he had been on the bus
and that the woman and her boyfriend grabbed his
phone and ran off. When he chased them, they
allegedly punched and kicked him. The man said
the boyfriend kept going when the woman stopped
to call for help. When officers searched the
woman they found the victims phone and some
crack. The woman was arrested and the man got
his cell phone back.—Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell.
--Suspected cell phone thief calls 911 to
report that victim won't leave her alone, By
Evan Bleier,
http://www.upi.com/Odd_News/2014/08/12/Suspected-cell-phone-thief-calls-911
-to-report-that-victim-wont-leave-her-alone/6631407864117/?spt=sec&or=on,
Accessed
August 12, 2014.
Proverbs 17:20 (NASB) He who has a
crooked mind finds no good, And he who is
perverted in his language falls into evil.
CHARACTER
The Brandon Mississippi Bulldogs were beating
their rival Northwest Rankin Cougars when the
Cougars lost their only quarterback to an
injury. Rather than claiming an easy victory,
the Bulldogs sent one of their two quarterbacks
over to the Cougars to keep the game even. Mason
Mathieu, the loaned signal caller, gave it his
all and passed for two touchdowns. The Bulldogs
did more than win the game, they demonstrated
character and sportsmanship. --Jim L. Wilson and
Rodger Russell
The Week, October 17, 2014 p. 2
Psalm 133:1-3 (HCSB) How good and pleasant it
is when brothers live together in harmony! (2)
It is like fine oil on the head, running down on
the beard, running down Aaron’s beard onto his
robes. (3) It is like the dew of Hermon falling
on the mountains of Zion. For there the LORD has
appointed the blessing— life forevermore.
CHARACTER
In his book, Making the Grass Greener on Your
Side, Ken Melrose writes, “Each of us has that
capacity for self-improvement. As leaders, we
have the responsibility to inspire and guide
others to live up to their potential. To do
that, we have to model the character and
behavior we hope to see in others. Leadership is
an inside-out thing—what we have internalized,
we reflect outwardly in what we do. Lip service
accomplishes nothing. No matter what our talk
may be, it is our walk, our behavior that
reveals our true beliefs.”—Jim L. Wilson
--Making the Grass Greener on Your Side, 13.
2 Corinthians 8:21 (NKJV) “providing honorable
things, not only in the sight of the Lord, but
also in the sight of men.”
CHARACTER
Gatewood Galbraith was a perennial candidate
for governor of Kentucky and even though he died
in 2012, Galbraith’s name may be back on the
ballot this year. Another man, Terrill Newman,
has legally changed his name to Gatewood
Galbraith and plans to run for Kentucky Governor
as an independent. Newman says he doesn’t expect
to win, but wants to run to honor Galbraith’s
memory. Galbraith ran for governor five times
and gained a following for his wit and stances
on controversial issues.--Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell
Candidate died in 2012, but his name might be
on 2015 ballot,
http://news.yahoo.com/candidate-died-2012-name-might-2015-ballot-164705696.html,
Accessed
April 2, 2015.
2 Thessalonians 3:9 (HCSB) It is not that we
don’t have the right to support, but we did it
to make ourselves an example to you so that you
would imitate us.
CHARACTER
An Australian mother who spent several days in
the hospital with her infant son returned to
find two surprises on her car. She found a
parking ticket and a note from a stranger who
had paid the fine. The mother, who did not
identify herself, posted on a Canberra Mum’s
Facebook page to thank the woman who had paid
her ticket. She said that after spending several
days in the hospital with her son, that she
didn’t need a ticket too. She was surprised to
see that a woman named Laura left her note
telling her the fine had already been
paid. The mom said the woman recognized
that what she was going through at the hospital
said she hoped things got better. In thanking
her benefactor, the anonymous mother said, “I
hope that Laura sees this and knows how much I
appreciate her support. Thank you so much.”—Jim
L. Wilson and by Jim Sandell
Stranger pays parking ticket while mom is in
hospital with baby, By Ben Hooper,
http://www.upi.com/Odd_News/2015/08/17/Stranger-pays-parking-ticket-while-mom-is-in-hospital-with-baby/3861439840395/?spt=sec&or=on,
Accessed
August 17, 2015.
Colossians 3:12 (NASB) “So, as those who have
been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a
heart of compassion, kindness, humility,
gentleness and patience;”
CHARACTER
Will Claye thought he had
qualified for the 2016 Olympic team in the long
jump but when officials ruled that his jumps
were wind-aided, he discovered that he did not
qualify. He did not give up. Instead, he
regrouped and qualified for the team with his
performance in the triple jump. He said
afterward that he believed that God had
something bigger for him. He said he knows his
days as an athlete are fleeting and he will move
on to something else later. The most important
thing he will have done is to make a difference
for the Lord. He said track and field and all
the blessing on earth could be gone tomorrow.
Claye added, “It’s good to excel in sports, but
at the end of the day, it’s about pleasing God,
and making sure that you are doing right by Him,
not just for earthly possessions or things like
that, but go to heaven.” —Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell
Olympics: Triple jumper ready
for big leap, By Tim Ellesworth,
http://www.bpnews.net/47381/olympics-triple-jumper-ready-for-big-leap,
Accessed August 12, 2016.
Ephesians 6:6 (HCSB)“Don’t
work only while being watched, in order to
please men, but as slaves of Christ, do God’s
will from your heart.”
REPUTATION
After Leslie Ray Charping, a
75-year-old Galveston, Texas resident died of
cancer, his online obituary read, Leslie Ray
lived “29 years longer than expected and much
longer than he deserved. His hobbies were being
abusive to his family, expediting trips to
heaven for the beloved family pets, and
fishing.”
It is a sad day when you come
to the end and your family only has negative
things to say about you. Live your life in such
a way that you will be missed, for positive
reasons, when you are gone. —Jim L. Wilson and
Rodger Russell.
The Week, February 24, 2017
p. 12
Proverbs 22:1 (HCSB)“A
good name is to be chosen over great wealth;
favor is better than silver and gold.”
CHARACTER
French
researchers
discovered that people imitate behaviors
like laziness, impatience, and prudence from
others, which suggest those attitudes have a
strong social influence on people. Those
traits influence the way people make
decisions and often involve delay an action
or effort based on taking risks. Researchers
found that after participants observed
prudent, impatient, or lazy attitudes in
others, their own choices changed to match
those of the people they observed.–Jim L.
Wilson and Jim Sandell
1 Corinthians 15:33 (HCSB)“Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts
good morals.’”
CHARACTER
A small,
isolated town at the edge of the Aleutian
Islands had no police protection for several
days after all three of its officers suddenly
resigned, and the city council voted to fire
the police chief. The community was without a
police presence for four days, but there were
no major calls into the 911 dispatch in that
time. One resident said the town was in the
summer peak and everyone was hard at work so
there were no problems that needed to be dealt
with and the temporary absence was not a big
deal.—Jim L. Wilson & Jim Sandell.
Romans 5:3–4 (CSB) “And not
only that, but we also rejoice in our
afflictions, because we know that affliction
produces endurance, endurance produces proven
character, and proven character produces hope.”
CHARACTER
Though he
didn’t win the election, New York City mayoral
candidate Aaron Commey said he was shocked
that so little attention paid to his arrest
for trying to highjack an airline in July,
2000. Commey boarded a National Airlines plane
in New York and ordered the pilots to fly to
Argentina or Antarctica. The plane never took
off and no one was injured, but Authorities
took Commey into custody.
He was
acquitted by reason of insanity and released
from a prison mental facility in 2015. Commey
told a magazine that is would be reasonable
for voters to wonder if he was suited to hold
the office. He claimed he is fully recovered
and because he has experienced and witnessed
injustice, he would be the best person to
change the current system. –Jim L. Wilson and
Jim Sandell
Romans 5:4
(CSB) “endurance produces proven character,
and proven character produces hope.”
CHARACTER
A Massachusetts
couple says at first it was fun receiving free
mystery packages from Amazon, but now they
want them to stop. Mike and Kelly Gallivan
said the first the first package arrived in
October 2017. Since then, they have continued
at a rate of one or two a week. Most contain
cheap products such as plastic fans and phone
chargers. Amazon told them the items were paid
for with a gift card and they do not know the
senders name. Experts think the Gallivans are
being used in a ruse to manipulate buyer
reviews. They think the anonymous sender is
writing good reviews of their own product in
order to boost sales. Unfortunately, there is
no way to trace the sender or stop the
packages yet.—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
High school
senior Kate Wynja won the Class A girls state
golf tournament, but then realized she has
submitted an incorrect scorecard. She
accidentally credited herself with a 4 on the
18th hole, instead of a 5 and knew she had to
report it. As a result, she was disqualified,
and her team fell from first to second place
in the tournament. Tournament director Dan
Swartos called the situation ‘awful,” but he
had no other choice in the matter. Swartos
added, “I have so much respect for Kate to
come up and do that. I cannot say enough for
that young lady and how much integrity that
took, and how proud I am to have kids like
that in South Dakota.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell.
And
not only that, but we also rejoice in our
afflictions, because we know that affliction
produces endurance, endurance produces proven
character, and proven character produces hope.
This hope will not disappoint us, because God’s
love has been poured out in our hearts through
the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
CHARACTER
Georgia
authorities suspended two police officers
after they used a coin toss to decide whether
to arrest a 24-year-old driver they stopped
for speeding. The Police dash cam captured the
entire incident on video. The driver told them
that she was running late and the officers
discussed whether they should give the diver a
ticket for speeding and arrest her for
reckless driving, or let her go free.They
decided to use a cell phone app to make the
decision. It was heads, arrest; tails,
release. The flip went against the motorist
and they arrested her. However, when they
played the video at her hearing, the court
dismissed her case. Roswell Police Department
Chief Rusty Grant said, “I am appalled that
any law enforcement officer would trivialize
the decision-making process of something as
importance as the arrest of a person.”—Jim L.
Wilson and Jim Sandell.
Do not be
deceived: “Bad company corrupts good morals.”
CHARACTER
A little
girl who lost her stuffed lion on a hike
received it back after a community effort to
locate her. Hiker Holly Spaman encountered the
girl, Audrianna Flores and her family as they
descended from a hike to No Name Lake in
Oregon.The
girl told Spaman that her stuffed lion had
fallen out of her mother’s pack on their trek,
but they could not find it. Spaman promised to
look, but never expected to find the toy. A
few miles later, she found it beside the trial
but did not have a number to contact the
family to let them know.Instead,
she
took a picture and posted it on social media
when she got home. Friends forwarded the note
until finally reached someone who knew
Adrianna, and that person returned the lion to
her. The girl’s mother Erin Allen told
reporters, “This has been truly amazing –all
of the kind people out there in the world.”—Jim
L. Wilson and Jim Sandell.
for the fruit of the light consists of all
goodness, righteousness, and truth—
CHARACTER
In
7 Habits of Highly Effective People,
Stephen Covey writes, “It is character
that communicates most eloquently.” —Jim L.
Wilson
--7
Habits
of Highly Effective People, p. 30
Proverbs
11:3 (CSB)
The integrity
of the upright guides them,
but the
perversity of the treacherous destroys them.
CHARACTER
A waiter at a New York City
pizzeria returned a cashier check for $424,000
to a woman who accidentally left it behind but
failed to leave him a tip. Armando Markaj did
not find a tip, but did find the check as he was
cleaning the table at the restaurant.It had
been left behind by Karen Vinacour who stopped
to have lunch with her daughter before going to
purchase a nearby condo with the money.Markaj
said Saturdays at the restaurant are busy and he
typically just cleared the table and threw
everything away, but he noticed the envelope and
found the check inside. He turned it over to the
manager because he knew he had to do the right
thing with almost half a million dollars.When
she returned, Vinacour was so relieved to find
the check waiting that she began to cry. She
said, “I’m so grateful that the insult that we
gave him did not prevent him from doing the
right thing.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
Psalm 25:21 (CSB)“May
integrity and what is right watch over me, for I
wait for you.”
CHARACTER
The Donegal
County Library in Ireland confirmed that a copy
of the book, The White Owl, by Annie M.P.
Smithson had been returned nearly 82 years after
it was checked out. The library shared photos of
the book and the library stamp on social media.
The stamp indicated the book had been checked
out July 23, 1937 and was due 14 days later. No
one knows what happened to the book over all
those years, but a local paper reported a
relative of the person who checked it out found
the book as they cleaned out their relative’s
home. The book is considered a classic and the
library was thankful the person decided to
return it rather than keeping it or throwing it
away.Irish public libraries ended overdue book
fines in January. Before that the average fee
was five cents a day. That means the fee for the
book would have totaled a little over $1400.
Psalm 97:11 (CSB) Light dawns
for the righteous, gladness for the upright in
heart.
CHARACTER
Evidence from a study conducted at
Ohio State University suggests the best way to
discover a person’s true nature is to put them
in a time-critical situation. Researchers found
that an individual’s traits become more
noticeable when they are forced to make a quick
decision. Results of the study revealed that
when individuals are faced with time pressure,
they tend to stick with what they have done in
the past. When they have more time to think
about their options, the same people are more
likely to move beyond their established
patterns. Researchers said patterns such as
selfishness or pro-social behavior was most
readily recognizable among the participants.
Co-author of the study, Ian Kiajbich said
“People start off with a biasof whether it
is best to be selfish or pro-social. If
they are rushed, they’ll tend to go with that
bias.” Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
Romans 5:4 (CSB) “endurance
produces proven character, and proven character
produces hope.”
CHARACTER
An Arizona
police officer went beyond the call of duty to
help an elderly woman who had been scammed and
abandoned in the Phoenix area. Officer Adam
Walicke met the woman at a department store
where she had been sitting for almost a full
day. She told Walicke that she had spent the
last of her money to fly to Arizona to meet
the man of her dreams, but found out she had
been scammed and now had nowhere to go.Walicke
learned more about her plight and contacted
her son in back n Chicago. He took her to the
airport, and bought a one-way ticket to
Chicago, where her son picked her up.Walicke
said he knew he had to help when he heard the
woman had flown in from Illinois with the
expectation that she was meeting a man,
building a new relationship and starting a new
life. It was obvious she was part of an
elaborate scam.He said, “This could have been
anybody’s grandma.”—Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell
And if anyone
forces you to go one mile, go with him two.
GROUP THINK
In their book, No Rules
Rules: Netflix and the Culture of Reinvention,
Reed Hastings, Erin Meyer write, “There’s a
funny candid-camera-style video that shows three
actors riding an elevator with their faces
turned toward the back, away from the door. A
woman enters the elevator and, at first, she
looks confused. Why are these people facing the
wrong way? But then, slowly, although she
obviously thinks what they are doing is weird,
she also starts to turn around. Humans are much
more comfortable when going along with the
herd.”
—No Rules Rules, 141
Matthew 7:13
(CSB)
“Enter through the narrow
gate. For the gate is wide and the road broad
that leads to destruction, and there are many
who go through it.
CHARACTER
Luke Maye, whose
game-winning shot propelled the Tar Heels into
the 2017 Final Four doesn’t just excel on the
court. In 2018, Coach Hubert Davis said this
about him, “[he] really is an example on the
court and off the court and you always want to
be an example of Christ in the way that you
walk and everything that you do. And that’s
what Luke does, he witnesses through
everything.”
The owners of a
Michigan butcher shop were horrified when they
realized they had misplaced an envelope
containing all the day’s receipts. Tim Sobie,
owner of Sobie Meats said he and his wife were
frantically searching for the misplaced
deposit bag after they dropped it somewhere
inside or outside the store. They had retraced
their steps and looked everywhere but couldn’t
find it. They were sick inside, because losing
the money meant the loss of an entire day’s
pay for them and their employees.Sobie
said he felt relieved when a man came in just
before closing and handed over the deposit bag
he had found outside the store.Security
footage
later revealed the man had been driving past
when he saw the bag and stopped to pick it up.
Sobie said, “He had never been in the shop
before and he was doing an act of kindness
like that. So that was pretty phenomenal.” He
added that he gave the man a gift card as a
reward. –Jim L. Wilson and Jim Sandell
Waste collection
workers in Ohio were able to find and return
$25,000 cash that a family accidentally threw
away while helping their grandmother clean her
home.Officials
said they got a call from the family when they
realized the money had accidentally been
thrown in the trash just before the truck
picked it up. The family was cleaning out the
refrigerator and freezer and threw out bags of
garbage before their grandmother could warn
them there was money hidden in the freezer.
The trash company detoured the truck to a
recycling facility before it reached the
landfill and found the envelope after 10
minutes of searching. Dan Schoewe, operation
manager at the recycling center said It felt
good to provide a happy ending for the family.
He added, “It can be very, very difficult.
It’s rare that we can find something for
somebody. So, this is like the biggest one
I’ve seen in 30 years.” –Jim L. Wilson and Jim
Sandell
I wrote for this
purpose: to test your character to see if you
are obedient in everything.
CHARACTER
Massachusetts resident Chris
Robarge was surprised when a
former landlord contacted him asking for his
current address. He was even more
surprised when he received a letter from his
former landlord with a check for
$2500 inside. His former landlord told Robarge
he had sold the house and
explained that he wanted to share the profits he
earned with former tenants who
helped him pay of the mortgage.The
letter explained that the former landlord
recognized the contributions of tenants
over the years, and he wanted to share the
profits with them. Robarge said he
planned to use some of the surprise gift to fix
his car, and then give the rest
away to help others. He said, “All I can say is
that there are people who talk
about their values and there are people who
actually live them, and the reason
I wanted to share this is that I want to
encourage us all to actually live our
values. Do it off the clock, do it when no one
is watching, do it always.”—Jim
L. Wilson and Jim Sandell.